If you are able to handle the situation with care, making your woman overwhelmed on the very first meeting, is not big deal. There are certain guidelines which will definitely come handy in impressing a woman during the first meeting, though there is no specific golden rule or formula behind this approach. All you need to do is prepare yourself the way you perceive a particular situation you are in beforehand. Sometimes you notice a pretty woman dating a man with normal personality. This may reflect certain vague thoughts in your mind, like the guy might be from a rich background or he might be very brilliant that caught up the attention of the woman. At times, this may be true but not all the time. There can be numerous other factors which help in impressing a woman.
The main characteristic of a man’s approach is his ability to tackle a woman. Men very well know how to impress woman and they are prepared to tackle her even in the adverse situations. Another trick is that a guy should be presentable in his manners and conduct. Your way of talking is another major factor that contributes to impressing a woman. It is very well said that ‘The first Impression is the Last impression’. This should be the mantra in building relationships. If your first meeting with the woman is quite impressive, then she will definitely seek opportunities to meet with you, the very second time. However, if you are quite disrespectful and rude in your dealings, you fail to get another opportunity to make a good impression for dating the woman. This is how initial impressions play a significant role in impressing a woman.
Maintaining a proper eye-to-eye contact is another significant feature that most of the men usually follow to impress a woman. During your first meeting, you may come up with the feeling of un-easiness or discomfort, if you try to maintain an eye contact with her. But it is very important from her perspective. It is only up to you to determine an apt time for maintaining eye contact. Females comparatively have higher tendency to maintain eye contact. So, try to maintain a prolong eye contact during the course of your interaction with your woman. In addition, do focus on her body language, i.e. her way of talking and maximize the use of hand gestures to mark or show respect to the lady. Don’t try to stare unnecessarily on other body parts, as it may degrade your reputation in front of her. This is because of the fact that women have sharp power to recognize the mental run of men and they can easily read your intentions.
Some men are so confused during their first date that they don’t know how to initiate talking with their lady. However, it varies from person to person. Different people have different perspective and their way of dealing a particular situation is different. Some men are smart enough to know how to handle the woman. A particular surrounding in which you are interacting with your woman also plays a key role in making your first date a success or failure. Some people are quite conscious about the people surrounding them while interacting with the girl.
These are some of the essential dating tips that one should follow while dating a woman. These tricks are also beneficial to impress women in the very first meeting. So, follow these guidelines and enjoy your first date with a feeling of easiness.
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Speed Dating Tips for Women
Don't Give Out Any Personal Details!
Speed dating is a great way to meet single guys. Its fun, it's fast and most importantly, it's safe. Help us keep it that way by not giving out any personal information during your speed dates. This includes last name, telephone number and email address. If you tick him off in your Speed Dating folder, and he also shows an interest in you, we'll make sure you both have everything you need in order to catch up again!
Give Clear Signals
Men are notoriously bad at interpreting signals from women. Know what you want when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear and that they convey what you mean. If you genuinely want to meet people then by all means flirt, just make sure you know how to separate the sexual flirting signals from the 'hi, I'm friendly' flirting signals.
Laugh and the World laughs with You
People love being around charismatic people because they spread good feelings. Get yourself into the right state of mind for making a good impression and go for it. Feel good about yourself and others will feel good about you.
Like your mother said, if you haven't got anything nice to say - don't say anything at all... but don't get up and leave!
A Russian immigrant attended one speed dating events. Although he had a PhD he had found it difficult to find a job in his field and was driving a cab to make ends meet. When he arrived at one of the female guest's table she asked him what he did for a living (a no no in itself) and promptly got up and went to sit at the bar when she found out he drove a taxi. Not only is this kind of behavior deeply insulting to the man, it's just plain wrong.
It's almost inevitable that some of the people you meet will not be right for you, but they are human beings and deserve your respect and courtesy. They've paid to meet you too!
Be Interesting by Being Interested
Cut down the talk about yourself and ask him open-ended questions. Find out about him - after all people generally enjoy talking about themselves and feel flattered when someone shows an interest in them.
Jay Abrahams, the famous marketing expert, tells the story of a conversation he had with a stranger in a bar. He introduced himself and said that he was in Sydney to do a lecture tour. He then asked the stranger "What brings you to Sydney?"
An hour later the man got up to leave. "You know Mr. Abrahams" he said, "You are one of the most interesting people I have ever met". Jay recounts that during the entire hour the only words he spoke were those of his introduction and his first question!
People like people who are interested in them. You don't have to shut up entirely but when you engage someone in conversation make sure you spend at least 60% of the time listening to THEM!
Ask Him What He Enjoys Doing
Women and men often tend to fall back on the line 'What do you do'? To some men, this can smack of 'checking for wallet-padding'. Not everyone is doing work they love and the question may put them on the spot. Men are much more activity orientated than women. Asking them what they enjoy doing in their life will allow you to find out more about what makes them tick.
Be Yourself
There's no point assuming a role you think someone wants you to play because you'll get found out sooner or later. Be proud of who you are and if you aren't sure how you are at your best, you might want to do some work on it. There are plenty of courses and self-help books out there, or you can ask us for some advices.
These tips are courtesy of Peta Heskell
Speed dating is a great way to meet single guys. Its fun, it's fast and most importantly, it's safe. Help us keep it that way by not giving out any personal information during your speed dates. This includes last name, telephone number and email address. If you tick him off in your Speed Dating folder, and he also shows an interest in you, we'll make sure you both have everything you need in order to catch up again!
Give Clear Signals
Men are notoriously bad at interpreting signals from women. Know what you want when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear and that they convey what you mean. If you genuinely want to meet people then by all means flirt, just make sure you know how to separate the sexual flirting signals from the 'hi, I'm friendly' flirting signals.
Laugh and the World laughs with You
People love being around charismatic people because they spread good feelings. Get yourself into the right state of mind for making a good impression and go for it. Feel good about yourself and others will feel good about you.
Like your mother said, if you haven't got anything nice to say - don't say anything at all... but don't get up and leave!
A Russian immigrant attended one speed dating events. Although he had a PhD he had found it difficult to find a job in his field and was driving a cab to make ends meet. When he arrived at one of the female guest's table she asked him what he did for a living (a no no in itself) and promptly got up and went to sit at the bar when she found out he drove a taxi. Not only is this kind of behavior deeply insulting to the man, it's just plain wrong.
It's almost inevitable that some of the people you meet will not be right for you, but they are human beings and deserve your respect and courtesy. They've paid to meet you too!
Be Interesting by Being Interested
Cut down the talk about yourself and ask him open-ended questions. Find out about him - after all people generally enjoy talking about themselves and feel flattered when someone shows an interest in them.
Jay Abrahams, the famous marketing expert, tells the story of a conversation he had with a stranger in a bar. He introduced himself and said that he was in Sydney to do a lecture tour. He then asked the stranger "What brings you to Sydney?"
An hour later the man got up to leave. "You know Mr. Abrahams" he said, "You are one of the most interesting people I have ever met". Jay recounts that during the entire hour the only words he spoke were those of his introduction and his first question!
People like people who are interested in them. You don't have to shut up entirely but when you engage someone in conversation make sure you spend at least 60% of the time listening to THEM!
Ask Him What He Enjoys Doing
Women and men often tend to fall back on the line 'What do you do'? To some men, this can smack of 'checking for wallet-padding'. Not everyone is doing work they love and the question may put them on the spot. Men are much more activity orientated than women. Asking them what they enjoy doing in their life will allow you to find out more about what makes them tick.
Be Yourself
There's no point assuming a role you think someone wants you to play because you'll get found out sooner or later. Be proud of who you are and if you aren't sure how you are at your best, you might want to do some work on it. There are plenty of courses and self-help books out there, or you can ask us for some advices.
These tips are courtesy of Peta Heskell
Monday, July 6, 2009
Speed Dating
Speed dating occurs when people go to a speed dating
place looking for someone who might be a good match
for them. This includes a very quick meeting with many
different people and you see if there is someone there
who you might be compatible with.
Speed dating is when many women and men sit at tables.
A woman and a man will sit at each table for a
specified period of time. It may be two minutes or ten
minutes depending on the speed dating place you are
at.
During this period of time, the two will ask each
other questions and get to know a little about each
other. They have the opportunity to quickly get a run
down on each person and decide if they are someone
they might be interested in getting to know a little
better after.
When the time is up then the women or the men will
move to the next table and talk to another person.
After each of the couples have met and spoke to each
other they will give the numbers of the people or say
which people they are interested in. If both people
show an interest then they have the opportunity to
communicate and go out together.
During the speed dating process while couples are at
the table they may exchange information with each
other also, if they hit it off right away.
Speed dating is not for everyone but some people
really like meeting new people and finding a date this
way. Many people like this method because they get to
meet the people in person and talk with them rather
than online or by going on a blind date.
It is said that if there is chemistry between the two
people then it is immediately recognized during a
speed dating session.
place looking for someone who might be a good match
for them. This includes a very quick meeting with many
different people and you see if there is someone there
who you might be compatible with.
Speed dating is when many women and men sit at tables.
A woman and a man will sit at each table for a
specified period of time. It may be two minutes or ten
minutes depending on the speed dating place you are
at.
During this period of time, the two will ask each
other questions and get to know a little about each
other. They have the opportunity to quickly get a run
down on each person and decide if they are someone
they might be interested in getting to know a little
better after.
When the time is up then the women or the men will
move to the next table and talk to another person.
After each of the couples have met and spoke to each
other they will give the numbers of the people or say
which people they are interested in. If both people
show an interest then they have the opportunity to
communicate and go out together.
During the speed dating process while couples are at
the table they may exchange information with each
other also, if they hit it off right away.
Speed dating is not for everyone but some people
really like meeting new people and finding a date this
way. Many people like this method because they get to
meet the people in person and talk with them rather
than online or by going on a blind date.
It is said that if there is chemistry between the two
people then it is immediately recognized during a
speed dating session.
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